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Goofball science wonk working on unbreaking civilization

"A damn decent man who will treat you right, but it does mean listening to endless lectures on dinosaurs." - my ex

Polymath. Scifi/fantasy nerd. Older on the inside. Got my shit together 90% and rising. Into reading, gardening, board & video games, crafting, documentaries, space, bugs, and learning whatever new subjects I can crowbar into my brain. Got a solid career I enjoy, no debt, no kids, and I'm working on a couple projects in my spare time that might be worth turning into startups. My love language is primarily physical touch, with kind words and spending time together as secondaries.

Looking for a highly intelligent, intellectual, introspective, romantic, capable, tenacious, courageous woman who lives with a purpose, takes care of her body approximately as well as I do, and has her life more together than not, or at least has a solid plan to get there sooner rather than later. I'm also happy to make like-minded friends.

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
Height173 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairBeard
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
My AttractivenessAttractive


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith pet(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
Have PetsCat
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyResearch / Science / Engineering
Employment StatusFull-time
Job TitleData Applications Developer II

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesCartoons, Documentaries, Science fiction
Favorite TV showsBabylon 5, Star Trek, Farscape, Archer, Brooklyn 99, The Good Place, Cosmos, BBC Earth.
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Romance, Documentary
Favorite moviesThe Martian, Interstellar, Edge of Tomorrow, Oblivion, the MCU, Wonder Woman, Avatar, The Mummy
Music typesMetal, Pop, Classical, New age
Favorite artistsMarcus Warner, Enya, Diane Arkenstone, Leaves' Eyes, A Covenant of Thorns, Amaranthe, Qntal, Agnes Obel, Claire Pelletier, Eurielle
Reading selectionAncient, Fantasy, History, Home & Garden, Nature, Science, Science fiction, Technical
Favorite booksAuthors: Patrick Rothfuss, Brandon Sanderson, Robert Jordan, Garth Nix, Alistair Reynolds, Andy Weir, Tolkien, Terry Pratchett
Series: Spellmonger, Expeditionary Force, Chaos Seeds, Dresden Files
Textbooks: Edible Forest Gardens, Gaia's Garden
Idea of funScience and history museums, zoos, aquariums, botanical gardens, tropical beaches, board game night, LAN party, wandering the woods, hiking a mountain, foraging wild plants, working in my garden, finding a cool bug, curling up on the couch with my cat and/or a special human and watching something on the TV, reading in front of my fireplace, going for a walk with an audiobook and a beer and seeing my neighborhood's gardens, home improvement, inventing, talking about brainy topics with someone who can teach me something.
HobbiesExercising, Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Games, Travel, Gardening


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorFunny
Friends describe asGoofy
In High School I was a(n)Brain
Sense of humorGoofy
My great timeHanging out with friends, Staying at home, Reading a book, Playing video games, Going to a museum
Always wanted to tryWildcrafting primitive tech, mining, smelting, metalcraft


Political viewsGreen party
Attend religious servicesNever
Goal in lifeImprove civilization.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Power, Wit
Look for in a partnerSee above
On the first dateI usually favor a drink (cider/beer/tea) and deep conversation. I avoid small talk like the plague. I get that it demonstrates mutual goodwill and whatnot, but it's so blasted boring. Other monkeys just pass each other fruit. Well, and pick bugs out of each others' fur, but I'd take even really bad small talk over that.

Exercising Preferences

ExcercisesCross Training, Yoga