I'm an independent, creative type with a big imagination, a big heart, and a strong value system. I'm always striving to make the best of life, and distinguish between the things that matter, and the things that don't. I'm here looking for a loving and honest relationship - a best friend and a lover.
I graduated two years ago with a BA in music, and since then have been working every day on my bigger goals. Eventually I'd like to be performing and releasing an album a year, as well as doing soundtrack work. To support my goals, I work full time at UNM. Needless to say, I'm very invested in my music.
(if anything, let me know what you think! I'd be glad to hear any feedback on it.)
I'm open minded, but if you ask me what I'm looking for, there are just a few general things that are important to me. When I meet people, I'm much more interested in what's inside them. For example, the culture in America is obsessed with physical beauty. I'm attracted to women in the same way any guy is, but I live more for discovering true beauty in others, and in life in general. I'm looking for someone honest and authentic, who is not afraid of being unique, and who's values are in the right place. Perhaps an artist of some sort. It goes without saying that there needs to be mutual attraction in a relationship, but I don't put weight on physical beauty beyond that. Being healthy is far more important to me. So many women starve themselves to meet the status quo, and that just breaks my heart. Perhaps I took to heart what Mr. Rogers said about us being special and beautiful "just the way we are."
I'm a very spiritual person, so to speak. I follow no religion, and do not base anything on faith. But I use the term spiritual when talking about inner work. I very invested in being the best person I can be, and finding happiness in all aspects of life. I set a high standard for myself, but I set no standard for anyone else. I understand that each of us live a very distinct life, and our actions always have a root cause. I am compassionate and do not judge others.
One last thing I want to say is that I am more or less content being alone and we will probably be more compatible if you feel the same way. I've had my share of one sided relationships where I was with someone who thought I could fix them. My life would slowly become consumed with their needs. In essence, what I'm saying (not very well lol) is that I'm looking for someone who has a strong head on their shoulders. Relationships don't work out if one person is always taking care of the other. I'm a very caring individual, but I've learned that you really can't help someone who is looking for someone else to fix them.
Anyway, enough with all that deep stuff! It seems best to say most of this stuff from the get-go to better my chances of finding the right person for me. Well, if you took the time to read this, I'm already impressed by your attention span! Please feel free to contact me if you have any questions or comments, or just to say hi. After all, you never know who someone is by simply reading their profile ;)